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Strengths and weaknesses

I am going to go through things that I need to improve and how I haven been working on it and how I will continue to work on it. I want to be aware of my weaknesses and improve them

I need to work on being more organized. I have a planner and create a to do list. I need to make a list for the day, week, month and year. I want to set a goal and be able to check them off as completed. I want to create a goal for the day

I need to improve my job status. I have a job while other people are not working. I am not happy with things but I can change them. I am not using my degree towards the job I have. I have a professional degree so I need to work on moving up.

I need to work on my confidence with positive thinking and creating a positive outlook. I need to stop speaking negatively and speak of only

I need to work on my time management skills and work on things that are productive vs. nonproductive things. If things look like they will not be worth my time then I need to stop doing these things

I need to be more happy as well as appear happy. I need to fake it until it is actually there. I don't want to be seen as this person that complains all the time or criticize everyone. I need to work on offering compliments and congratulating people on their success

I need to work on my interpersonal skills and building relationships. I need to work on being a great conversationalist. I need to put myself in environments where I have to meet new people and engage in conversations with other people.

I need to be more assertive and work on standing my ground without being aggressive. I have made mistakes in the past where I have stood up for myself but in a loud manner.

I need to work better on money. I want to open a separate bank account and have a percentage of my pay sent there and save money in that other account as if it doesn't exist

Work on my creativity and learning something new

I want to try to grow a strong skin and be less sensitive to mistreatment and be a stronger person

What I like about myself?

My strengths are too far and wide. I have many weaknesses but I can use my strengths to improve them. I feel like everyday is a journey of self improvement to become a better person.

One main things I am proud of myself is my determination. I start something and I complete it. I set a goal and I work hard with over a 100% completion goal. I am better at talking about things I am proud of than about my weaknesses. With my main strength of determination, I feel like my goals will be easy to obtain. I created a goal of being able to get to 20 minutes of cardio non stop within two months. It has been less than two months and I am doing 45 minutes of it. I have been almost two months of consistent working out. This main strength will be my main reason for my success.

Another strength I have is empathy. I am able to feel for someone help them out when they are in a time of need and listen to them. I find myself good at making them feel better when they are down.

I have also worked on improving my assertiveness. I use to allow anyone to say or do anything and each time I have improved my ability to stand my ground. Even though there is room for improvement I am proud of my improvement.

I am also happy with my degree and determination to go through with both of them without dropping out

I am also proud that I was able to travel a couple of times and excited for my future travels

I enjoy my family and the fact that I am seeing them more.

Another thing I have seen improvement in is my bravery when it comes to walk up to new people

I also conquered my fear of driving and now I am doing freeways and one day I will be confident in having a job that will require me to drive on the freeway

I am able to speak up more than usual. I speak when I know when I want a promotion. That is how I got my position is by speaking up.


I know I have more strengths and weaknesses. I will write another article about more positivity another time.

improving interpersonal and leadership skill

My goal is to improve my leadership skills to become a better leader and develop my personality to become a stronger leader. My goal is to develop into more of an authoritative leader who has a strong vision and a positive attitude.

I am going to analyze my current personality, see how other sees me, my barriers the traits of a good leader and how I can get there.

My current personality: This part is where I am going to be a negative and rant. I have the personality people meet and feel they can manipulate and treat a certain way. I see people treat people differently than I am and I feel it is the way I project myself. I would like to change that in part of my leadership training. People feel they can push me over and retaliate when I try to stand up for myself vs. when other people who stand up for themselves they stop. It becomes a bigger drama when I try to stand up for myself. I feel like it is hypocritical seeing the mean girl try to call me a bully when I try to stand up for myself against someone who has treated me poorly. I feel it is due to the way they see me. They treat me the way I allow them to be treated. I have this fear of retaliation every time I stand up for myself

Setbacks: Is the way I feel and I project that into myself and allow people to see the way I feel about myself. I need more confidence. I need to firmly speak without intimidation. People treat and see me the way I allow them to do so. I need to change that.

Strategy: Start to get a better view of myself and have people see me that way instead of a timid kind of person. I will not let fear get in the way

Keys traits of a good leader: There are few traits I can develop in order to become a great leader. I will work on each of these traits and also work on my confidence

1. Positivity: I need to be more positive and create a positive environment in order to become a good leader. I need a more can do attitu
2. Become a good listener. I need to improve my conversational skills and also my listening skill in order to inspire people better
3. Be a more strategic thinker. I need to have a clear vision of my goals and go for it
4. Good decision making skills
5. Delegation. I shouldn't do everything on my own. i should delegate effectively and be able to delegate without any setback
6. transactional analysis
7. assertiveness
8. charisma
9. build communications skills. I need to be good at building relationship in order to gain followers
10. emotional intelligence
11. building rapport

I will work on each of these and document and keep track of my progress. 

Goal: Improve Speech, Vocabulary and Grammar

• Tongue Twisters: Practice these tongue twisters atleast three times a week:  http://www.write-out-loud.com/dictionexercises.html
• Read Poems out loud:  http://www.poetryloverspage.com/poets/shakespeare/shakespeare_ind.html http://www.famouspoetsandpoems.com/poets/william_shakespeare/poems
• Read Speeches Out Loud: http://www.americanrhetoric.com/    http://www.write-out-loud.com/declamation-speech.html
• Improve Vocabulary: https://www.vocabulary.com/
• Improve Grammar: http://grammar.ccc.commnet.edu/grammar/